Wednesday, July 11, 2012

Spanking Meme

I saw this meme on My Discipline Diary and thought it would be fun to borrow it...

Would you rather be spanked outside in a cold woodshed or inside by a cozy fire? I would much prefer near a cozy fire, but we don't have a fireplace and we do have a woodshed, therefore the woodshed!

Would you rather be spanked in public or private? Private

Would you rather fantasize about spanking or actually be spanked? Well, that is exactly the question I asked myself when I found out about DD, and I wanted it in reality, so I told DH. And he prefers reality too. :D

Would you rather be spanked for humiliation or for your spanker's pleasure? I kind of like pleasure more, but needs a certain aspect of "he is in charge and I am not"

Would you rather be spanked by hand or hairbrush? Hand and then Hairbrush

Would you rather be spanked until you cried or until you are aroused? Really? Well....

Would you rather have just a red bottom or welts/bruises? red bottom

Would you rather be spanked for the naughty things you have done or just because you enjoy the experience? Naughty things.

Would you rather be spanked with panties up or panties down? panties down. DH loves to have them right underneath my bottom. He says my bottom looks exactly like one could find on any porn site.... 

Would you rather be spanked OTK or bent over a table/chair? otk...more physical contact/closeness that way

Would you rather your spanker have physical contact with you? Yes! I need that physical contact. I start to feel lost, and start wiggling otherwise.

Would you rather be a brat to your spanker to deserve a spanking or simply ask your spanker for a spanking because you know you needed it? Well I would like to say I would just ask for it, but know I don't and I know I get bratty, and as DH puts it, Bitchy!

Have you received a spanking in the last week? Nooooooooooooo

Would you rather be spanked for the physical pleasure or the emotional release? Don't they go hand in hand?

Would you rather be spanked by a despotic, mean person or by a compassionate, benevolent person? DH is very compassionate when he is spanking me.

Would you rather be talked to while you are spanked or no talking at all? Well, I really enjoy it when he talks to me, even when it is a lecture, that is still better than just silence and whacking.

Would you rather get one swat at a time with pauses to let the sting set in or a continuous tanning to build up the fire? DH does both, some like that, some like that. So both!

Would you rather be forced into a spanking or willingly submit into a spanking? A bit of both. I love when DH tells me, okay, this is happening.

Would you rather have a safe word or be pushed beyond your preconceived limits? Safe word. our safe word is: Safe Word!

Would you rather spanking be part of love making or not a part of love making? we use spanking for discipline that always ends in lovemaking.

Would you rather that spanking be a surprise or something that you have to look forward to? Both.

Would you rather that spanking be a part of role playing kinkiness or a response to events that have happened in reality? reality

Would you rather be cuddled or scolded after a spanking? definitely cuddled!

Feel free to copy and paste!~ Would love to read what you guys have to say!


  1. I plan on stealing this! I liked all your answers they seem like mine would be the same.

  2. Very fun! thanks for this...

  3. I may put this in my pocket for a rainy day! :)

  4. Thank you for this! I just copied and pasted mine...

    1. Cool! And you answered all the questions! I deleted some of mine because I didn't think they applied to me too much..

  5. Very cool post, may have to give it a try sometime :)

  6. I too may have to try it some time. Thanks

  7. Fun! I haven't seen this....I think we have all the same answers lol

  8. How fun, thanks for sharing! My answers would have been pretty much the same!

  9. I feel like I am late to the party! It has been a busy night so late catching up on blogs. This was a great post. I will come back to this, but a good find to share with everyone. Thank you!

  10. Neat! I may have to put this away for a rainy day, too. :)

  11. Thanks for sharing this. Maybe I'll use it too.

    1. Sure! Go for it. I love reading everyone's answers.


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