Monday, April 28, 2014

The Liebster Award

Sarah over at Clear as Mud nominated me and my blog for a Liebster Award, and I have to admit, I feel very flattered. Thank you so much. That is so sweet of you, and comes at a time when a nudge like this could really benefit both DH and I.

We have been back for two weeks now, everybody got sick after I did although I seem to be the only one still not quite back emotionally. Like every time when we have had a visitor or have gone to Germany over the last few years, DH and I are constantly talking about moving there, and while the thought of it is very appealing to me, I also see all the things it would take to make that possible and feel discouraged. Anyway, thank you Sarah, for calling me back a little. :)

Here are the rules:

1. Thank the person who nominated you and post a link to their blog on your blog.

2. Display the award on your blog-- by including it in your post and / or displaying it using a "widget" or "gadget".

3. Answer 11 questions about yourself which will be provided to you by the person who nominated you.

4. Provide 11 random facts about yourself.

5. Nominate 5 to 11 blogs you feel deserve this award, who have less than 1000 followers. (Note that you can ask the blog owner this since not all blogs display the widget that lets readers know this information.

6. Create a new list of questions for the blogger to answer.

7. List these rules on your post. Once you have written and published it, you then have to :

8. Inform people/blogs that you nominated that they have been nominated for the Liebster Award and provide a link for them to your post so they can learn about it (they might not have heard of it!)

Sarah asked me these questions:
1. What is your idea of a perfect way to spend the day? Money is no object.
I have been craving for a day spend without worrying about time. I would love for DH and I to get into our van, have the children in a save place, and get to just drive and go by ourselves. Maybe go hiking, take my camera, a blanket for a picnic, and no people anywhere. (If you are in Washington and know of such a place, please email me.  :D

2. Favorite spanking implement?
His right hand, the leather paddle, his belt

3. Favorite spanking position?
Over his lap.

4. Favorite vacation spot?
Any vacation is nice, I don't really have a favorite spot. Germany of course, but its never a vacation, same for our annual family get together, which I really enjoy, but when I think vacation, I think just us, away, no pressure from anyone but ourselves.

5. Favorite type of food?
I love playing around with recipes, these include Indian, Greek, German, and Italian.

6. What do you snack on?
Bought our first big pack of strawberries this season at Costco two days ago, so I just had  a big bowl full.

7. First place you had sex?
On my then boyfriend's mattress on the floor under the eves. He had a big aquarium at his headboard.

8. Kinkiest/strangest/coolest place you had sex?
As I am approaching 30 in less than a month now, I am really starting to think I haven't had any kinky/strange/cool places I have had sex in/at. I mean sure, the woodshed, the car, our bed and any furniture in our suite are all places we have had sex. I also remember DH lying me on his dinner table when I was still the aupair and making me cum right there. Another time, I didn't want him to leave for work yet, and managed to seduce him at the top of the stairs.  :D

9. Beach or Mountains?

10. What kind of shoes are you wearing right now?
I am, as usual, barefoot.

11. Person or persons, blogger or not, dead or alive, you admire most?
Mh. I was a little stumped, reading this question, even asked DH, lol, but I literally can't think of anyone. At least not single people. I admire the women who work full-time and are mothers, especially those working outside the home. At the moment I feel like, I wouldn't know how to manage that. I admire people who find the energy at the end of the day to volunteer and help other people.

11 Random facts about me:

1. I just tucked in my children, I love that part of the day for two very conflicting reasons, lol.
2. I love to cook food when I am in the mood, which I was today, yet somehow managed to screw up the rice. I mean, who can't cook rice?
3. May is about to begin. I am excited. My birthday, Mother's Day, pretty, spring all make me think of it as My month.
4. I can see a third of Mt. Rainier out of my window.
5. I wish we had more D/s going on, but at the same time, I know and understand why we don't.
6. I feel so lucky to have found my job, I am thankful for it every day.
7. I have been opening doors for my cats and dogs all day today, they just can't decide on one or the other.
8. My oldest has one of her first big tests of her whole life tomorrow, I am so proud of her, she souns confident and ready.
9. DH spanked me the other morning and it hurt within just two smacks to the point of me crying for him to please stop. The funny part: Two days later I figured out why! I had laid the other way across his lap because there was too much stuff on the bed for it the other way around, thus making his left hand the spanking hand. Ouch!
10. My cat is a climbing all over my laptop to get closer to the heat as I am typing this.
11. I did my first three days a week run since the beginning of the year this past week!

Blog nominations:

Surrendered Wife at Searching for Sir
Janey at Him, Me and Us
Kitty The Submissive Wife
Maryanne at A Professor and Maryanne
Dana at The Road Less Travelled

And my questions for you guys!
1. What is your favorite sex toy and why do you recommend it?
2.What is the weirdest thing you enjoy watching  on TV?
3. Do you have pets?
4. What is the color of your vehicle?
5. What was the best part of your day today?
6.What is the weather like where you live?
7. What is your partner's favorite pair of panties on you?
8. Have you read the Harry Potter series?
9. What was the last movie you saw on the big screen?
10. Your most and least favorite situations resulting in a spanking?
11. Do you have a personal thinking spot?

This was so much fun and what a great way to get back into blogging!

Thursday, April 17, 2014

Doing it Doggy Style!

Hello my lovely blog friends!!! I am so happy to report that we are home safe and sound, and have been for a few days already, however, I had the unfortunate fortune of sitting next to the biggest cougher on the whole plane for more than seven hours, and low and behold, I am sick. But at least its just me, and not the whole family.
The kids are doing very well with their jet-lag, they are such travelers! We arrived Sunday night after 6 pm, and were home by 7 pm. My expectations for them were not very high, although I figured they might want to go to school the next day, and they sure did. One morning, my oldest, who turned nine in Germany, came into my room at 6 in the morning asking if she can watch TV now because she had been up since 4 am doing her homework.

We had a pretty good trip, aside from the fact that DH didn't sleep much and his mood seemed to deteriorate with each night of not sleeping a lot. Although to his credit, he did pretty well, after all, going to Germany is never really a vacation as much as a marathon to see as many people and do as much as possible while letting the kids just roam at Oma's. But I am happy to report we managed everything. A few nights, my sister, her boyfriend and 15-month old stayed with us too, and we vacated Oma's waterbed for the even less comfortable couch in the living room. Needless to say, there was not a lot of sex! Even though we really had started out well, making sure to keep our connection the first few nights, but there is just no way to do it in the living room, on that couch.

Since we have been back, we have been adjusting to the time, and trying to get back in the groove. I was looking forward to jet-lag sex and being up with DH, but that hasn't really happened because I got sick. I have just been sleeping, lol. And he has let me.

This morning however, I was awoken by a huge person rolling himself on top of me and kissing me. In all the years we have been together (I love being able to say that), I have told DH many times to just wake me up for sex, but I can count the number of times he has actually done it on one hand. Well I think this morning expanded that number to my second hand, lol.
He kissed my neck, slowly going down my body. He stopped at my breasts, marveling at how well they fill out his hands, and then let his hands slowly wander down to his favorite part, my pussy. He suckled my nipple, while entering my pussy with his finger. He grew impatient very quickly and entered me with his already massive hard-on.

"Wait!" I said, suddenly even more excited. "We can do it Doggy Style again! No waterbed!!!" I smarted at him. He grinned, but didn't pull out all the way, making me flip over with his cock still inside my pussy. However, once he saw me kneeling in front of him like that, displaying all his favorite parts to his eyes alone, he pulled out and started fingering my pussy again while stroking my bottom hole.
"Mhh, my favorite view." I heard him murmuring.
He started entering my bottom with his finger, knowing this gets me every time, and proceeded to enter my pussy quickly. "You are so tight, I feel my thumb on my cock."
I felt so full, so deliciously full, and started grinding into him more.

It didn't last long, but the memory of it still makes me tingle.

We are home again.

Thursday, April 10, 2014

Dusch Das!

Hallo from Germany!  DH here, on "vacation" with our family here "im Deutschland," and having a pretty good time!  Actually, I wouldn't say that it's really a vacation for me, lol.  Sleeping has been a goal, rather than an accomplishment, and virtually EVERYTHING we've done has been for "die Kinder" (the kids).  Yesterday, we spent four hours in an indoor pool (which was awesome), and then went out for a kids movie in my favorite town where Julia grew up.

There's this body wash here called "Dusch Das!", which literally means "Wash That!"  Hilarious.

I'm not complaining: I love it here, and I think it's absolutely essential for our girls to experience their heritage, which is at least half German.  They get to speak German, and are surrounded by all of their family members.  At least those that want to spend time with them.  Heh.  But as far as I'm concerned, I'm really going to need a vacation after this, and I'm not sure how I'm going to get it.  Julia is less than sympathetic, and I'm not sure I blame her.  On the other hand, virtually no one is interested in how I'm feeling, or whether or not I'm sleeping, or what I might like to be doing on my only break in 8 fucking months.  Sigh.

The other night, I finally had Julia where I wanted her.  I'd been telling her that I absolutely LOVED her picture from her last Friday picture post, where the woman is lying on her tummy, legs spread wide, with him rubbing (what I imagine to be) her wet pussy.  We were lying in Oma's waterbed (long story, basically none of Oma's beds work correctly, and some are way worse than others, but at least there's running water and electricity (Germany, by the way, is WAY ahead of America in green power: every farm has as many solar panels as the roof will hold with at least one giant turbine in the field)), and she turned over and offered me her bottom.  She spread her legs, and then it was my fingers on her vulva, my thumb on her clit, massaging her gently up and down her slit.  I pushed my fingers into her, reaching for her G-spot, and gradually increased the pressure and intensity, moving my fingers in and out of her until she was moaning quietly and pushing back against my hand.  I leaned over her, and kissed her shoulder.

"Mmmm, tell me a story," she murmured.  Ruh roh.  I searched my mind somewhat desperately for a story she hadn't heard me tell yet, and realized I'd exhausted my current supply.  "Buying Alaska" theme?  Nope, did that.  My current story, excerpts from which are here, here, and here?  Nah, she already knows all of those too.

"OK, how about a story about a headmaster of an all-girls school?"

"Ohh," she said.  She spread her legs a little wider.  "Mmm hmmm..."  I put my thumb against her anus, and got it nice and wet with the lubrication from her pussy.  I let my thumb trace around the circle of her bottom hole as I thought up my story.  I suddenly thrust my second and third fingers into her pussy and she gasped, and then I pulled them out and resumed rubbing her wet slot, up and down the entire length of her wet pussy.

"OK," I said.  "Here's my story..."

Friday, April 4, 2014

Picture Friday from Germany!

Pictures of everything I will probably not be doing at the moment. Staying at my mother's is always such a turn-off! And DH doesn't respond well to situations changing and always needs way too long to adjust. So for now, I am fantasizing along with you.

Which one is your favorite?

Happy Friday!