Friday, December 26, 2014

Christmas Duet

We finally made it to bed last night after ten pm. (For us, pretty late as we have turned into these really old people that get up way too early.) Tired, cold, but really happy, we were lying spooning style, DH's front pressing along my whole back and butt area and for the longest time, we just lay there quietly, while he stroked my hip and I stroked along his arm which was under my head. I know I was processing the Day, and the Holidays, family we saw, and family that we didn't and I could feel myself being swept away by other places and people instead of actually being in the moment, present and present. 

I started to wiggle my bottom just a little at DH, his already semi-erect cock that had been nestled along my butt stirred with a jerk.

I was so relaxed lying next to Julia, and so at peace, but her wiggle was enough to get my attention.  I slid my hand down her back to the curve of her bottom, and then worked my third finger into her tight pussy.  She moaned as I carefully thrust it deeper into her pussy.  My cock swelled to its full size almost immediately, and tried to insert itself between Julia and my finger.  I gave in, and positioned my head against her wet pussy and gently pushed it into her.  She gasped as my cock parted her lips and slowly filled her canal.

"I want to put my whole cock in," I whispered as we lay on our sides.

"Oh, yes," she said.  She pushed back against me, striving to get more of my cock into her pussy.  I pushed forward, and our bodies finally made contact as my balls slapped against her clit.

"Ahh, that's it," I said.  I started rhythmically driving it into her, holding her shoulder for leverage.

"Turn over and get on your knees," I commanded.  Julia flipped over and presented me with her beautiful bottom.  Immediately, I took her pussy with my cock, and then wet my thumb with my spit, and started to gently circle her bottom hole as I slammed my cock into her.

"Oh, yeah," I said.  "Daddy wants your bottom, too."

"Yes, Daddy!"  She moaned and cried out as I worked my thumb into her impossibly tight bottom.

Minutes later, we came together as I drained myself into her.  We lay together on the bed, sated and utterly blissful, our own Christmas perfectly done.

Only to make love again this morning at 5.45 am when I woke up way too early once again. But I think there are worse things than going to bed too early too often to have sex. Happy Holidays everybody and as you can see the challenge is going pretty well.  :D


Friday, December 19, 2014


I never thought we would reach this day, although it shouldn’t be surprising to meet a goal that has taken the better part of this year to reach.  Behind the scenes of our crazy-hectic lives, I’ve been writing a story that has turned into a book that I have now submitted to a publisher.

I’m a little nervous.

It’s not that I fear rejection - I am not sure the publisher will like what I’ve written, which may be more about the publisher’s interests than my writing.  My backup plan is to publish it right here on the blog, one chapter at a time.  I would love to become a writer, but I’m also realistic - I write code for a living, not words.  I don’t have tons of time to hone my craft.  In fact, I would not be exaggerating to say I’ve written the vast bulk of my story on the train, J.K. Rowling-in-a-cafè-style, on my way to work.  Before I started riding the train, I even tried talking into my phone as I was driving.  That material hasn’t made it into my writing yet because I can’t understand the garbled text.  I’ll have to use it for drunk yelling dialog.

In January, I told Julia that this is our year.  I outlined all the things we were going to accomplish, even though it sounded silly at the time.  But lo and behold, together we HAVE accomplished nearly every single item on our list, and we’re looking forward to an even brighter 2015.  It won’t be without problems, for sure, but I’m really challenging myself to be flexible, strong, and ready: I want to be the kind of guy that can handle anything that comes our way, and lead us forward.

Happy Holidays to all of you!  I sincerely hope that your respective years are closing happily. It's gotta be better than the end of 2013, for all of us :p

Saturday, December 13, 2014

Determination after a long Week...

"Come on over my lap." He told me as we were just perfectly snuggled into bed together.

"Really? Do I have too?" I ask him, meaning it too, I was exhausted.

"Now." Was all he said and enough to get me moving right away. I lay naked across his lap, he stroked my cheeks first as if getting a feel for me first again before he started to spank me. He had the right rhythm  and intensity from the get-go.
He was quiet, I was quiet, both kind of just enjoying finally having this moment again. No young adult at home, who could walk around the house at any moment. Both children actually asleep so we wouldn't have to answer awkward slapping sound questions later on...

After a little while, the intensity of his hand finally got to me and I started squirming and soon after I started throwing up my legs. My tell all sign that its getting too much.

"Get back in position right now, lower your feet." A very stern sounding DH said without stopping the assault of spanks raining down on my ass. But I lowered my feet anyway. And he stopped.

He rubbed my bottom cheeks for a minute, probably feeling his handy work, and then started again with stronger determination. 

So today, I am walking around with a slightly still sore butt and a goofy, happy grin on my face. :D

Thursday, December 11, 2014

It's cookie time!!!

I realized tonight that we have officially entered the hot phase before Christmas with social events lining up, presents are arriving and need to be wrapped, and cookies can be baked!

I posted this cookie recipe before, but figured I would again.  These are my favorite to make, the roasted walnuts really give it the extra flavor.

But I think before I make those this season, I will be making these Vanilla Kipferl. 
Growing up in Germany, we would always go and visit my grandmother and her mother for Christmas. Four generations of females with no males in sight as husbands and fathers had all passed on by then.
Anyway, when we got there, they would already have several types of Christmas cookies all made, including these. Very easy to make, check out the link!

Happy Baking!

Tuesday, December 9, 2014

December Snippets

Hi, DH her!  Julia just handed me her laptop and told me to write something, so I'm giving it a shot.  She had a great idea for writing snippets based on our sex-every-day-in-December challenge - just short scenes that capture our moment of the day.  I like the daily sex challenge, although I have to admit that it's not as easy as it used to be, heh.  It can sobering to wake up without morning wood, and even more concerning to go without mid-morning, afternoon, or evening wood either.   Julia is always my antidote though.  I love being married to the person I'm most attracted to!  :)

"Do you want the pillow under me?"  She was lying flat on her back as I drove my cock into her bare pussy.

"Yeah," I said, catching my breath.  "That's a great idea."  I took the pillow and easily hoisted her hips and slid the pillow under her beautiful bottom.  "That's better," I said, admiring her little pussy on display.  I walked in close on my knees on the bed and positioned the head of my cock against her wet opening.  I teased her, circling her lips and pushing my head up through her labia to her clit.

"Ooo," she sighed.

"Do you like my big cock in your pussy?"  I slowly pressed into her hot slit.  Her lips spread as the head of my cock invaded her tight hole.  "Ahh," I groaned.  I pulled out, and then pushed in deeper.  My eyes crossed at the incredible feeling of her pussy gripping half the length of my cock, and then I grabbed her hips and pulled her forward as I thrust my cock deep inside her.

"Ahhh," she moaned.  "Yes!  I love your big cock in my pussy, Daddy!"  That was all the encouragement I needed.  My pace accelerated until I had to close my eyes as the overwhelming urge to empty my balls in her pussy overwhelmed me.  I let my balls slap against her bottom as I repeatedly rammed my whole length into her.

"Oh, ah ah," she cried out, close to release. 

"I'm coming," I groaned as my orgasms overtook me.  We both shuddered in the throes of our mutual climax, my cock still buried deep inside her clenching, wet pussy.


Thursday, December 4, 2014

A rest-of-the-year Challenge!

Thank you for your lovely words my friends, I really appreciate it. And of course you were right, and we have already worked it out. In the most delightful way possible too, even though it didn't involve a spanking. Hopefully there will be more regular spankings again in the new year, but don't need to go into more detail. :)

But while I was lying in DH arms after having hot sex, and two orgasms, it occured to me that it is already December. Again. The older I get, the more time speeds up and I seem to have to pay more attention to actually making it matter. Like Holidays and birthdays.

Two years ago, this was the time I left for Germany with the kids while DH stayed behind and I had issued him a challenge (You can read about it here.) to have sex every day until I left. We met the challenge and had a lot of fun. It was fun to have a reason to actually turn off the TV and just go to bed with the purpose of making love. The intimacy achieved, and I think its a great way to end the year. Our year. So, with the year coming to an end, I have decided that is what I want to do again.

DH being a guy, he of course, did not mind. And to give us a jump start, I went and got waxed today. My pussy is bare and I love it!

Happy December!!

Anyone interested in joining?

Tuesday, December 2, 2014

And so December begins

Hello blogland!

I hope you have had a wonderful Thanksgiving weekend for those of you in the US, and the rest of the world of course as well. I have to admit it took me a few years, well almost a decade, of living here in this country to actually start caring for this holiday. I used to still do the family gathering, but never really felt part of it, even though DH and I had already been married a few years. But over the last few Thanksgivings I have noticed how much I really do enjoy this holiday, the tradition of getting together as a family, eat great food, no pressure of gift giving, and of course, I also really enjoy DH's time off for the extended Thanksgiving weekend.

And despite me having my period until Sunday (great timing, right?) and DH getting a cold, we managed to have a great Thanksgiving weekend together. Minus sex. The only two times we did have sex toward the end of my period both ended very frustratingly for me, but at least it made DH feel a little more connected to me again.

Now its Tuesday afternoon, DH got to stay home yesterday and today to work because of his lingering cold, but he is feeling better already.  Still no sex.

Yesterday afternoon DH decided to go work out early so he could hang out with me in the evening. We could watch Dr Who (OMG! Who else is binge-watching this show? I can't even imagine having to wait years for new episodes), and then go to bed together.....
I went and took a shower. He came and washed me, played with me. He put the kids to bed. We watched Dr Who (awesome episode), and he started working right after. So I suggested I go to bed to warm it for us.


We watched nothing of value on TV while he was mostly not paying attention. And he just never came to bed until the early morning hours.

Sure, I am understanding of work, really am, but its really frustrating.

And today, DH feels less than confident, I can tell and he has told me, because I am pulling away. I don't feel like giving my submission or myself when it is not wanted or appreciated. Therefore I can't help him feel confident - which is exactly what I need from him in this situation. Stupid cycle.
Usually we break it by me submitting anyway, giving him myself, giving him a blowjob or something to bring back that confidence that I need from him. But right now, I just don't feel like it. 

But don't get me wrong, we are still doing well together, its just not been a very physical connection lately.